Workin' At Travelers Aid-ISS Revisited (5)

 One of the Travelers Aid-ISS social workers whose tapes of social or case histories and correspondence I would sometimes transcribe and type-up during my work day was a culturally-straight-looking white woman who seemed to be in her 40's, wore glasses all the time and was someone whom most men at that time would likely have considered not particularly attractive on either a physical or personality level.

So many decades later, I can't recall ever having exchanged more than a few words with her, whenever she appeared near my desk to either drop a tape to be transcribed in a basked or to pick up a typed transcription of one of her tapes, during the time I worked at Travelers Aid-International Social Services [ISS].

All that I recall about this particular social workers is that, despite being a conventionally married woman, her husband was then working in some southern U.S. city, Monday to Friday, while she worked in Manhattan at Travelers Aid-ISS, Monday to Friday. And apparently, the only time they slept together as husband and wife was when her husband would fly up to New York City for the weekend or when she would fly down South for the weekend.

And I remember thinking that it seemed that she and her husband's apparent desire to have a more affluent and conventional middle-class standard of living had led them to develop the kind of long-distance marriage relationship that most women I had previously known would not have found very emotionally or sexually satisfying.

The second Travelers Aid-ISS social worker, for whom I helped transcribe tapes and type-up social and case histories, was a more culturally-hip-looking white woman with shortly-cut dark brown hair, who seemed to be in her early 30's, whom most men at that time would have likely considered physically attractive and "pretty."

But although this woman social worker was the only woman in the Travelers Aid-ISS office who then wore a pants suit, rather than a dress or shirt, to work, she never indicated any interest in ever chatting with either me or any of the other transcription-typists, when she either dropped her tapes into the transcription-typist pool baskets or picked up the typed pages of her dictations that we all produced for her.

Apparently, she then had either a husband or a boyfriend. But since I can't recall ever exchanging any words with her, there's really nothing else I can now recall about her, so many decades later.

The third Travelers Aid-ISS social worker for whom I transcribed tapes was a white woman, with light brown hair, from some Scandinavian country, who seemed to be in her 40's, whom most men at that time would likely have still considered "pretty" and physically attractive. Apparently, she had ended up working in the USA for Travelers Aid-ISS in the 1970s because she had married a white middle-class or upper middle-class man from the USA, whom she had met in Europe after World War II who wished to bring her back with him to live in the USA as his wife.

After having some children and raising them at home while her husband went to work during the 1950s and 1960s, this social worker from Scandinavia, who still spoke English with a slight Scandinavian accent, had returned to the work world in the late 1960s or early 1970s.

Although the Travelers Aid-ISS social worker from Scandinavia always came to work in the office wearing a dress or skirt and blouse, rather than slacks or a pants suit, and still used lipstick and makeup in the mid-1970s, she was still the only other person in the Travelers Aid-ISS office who then seemed to be some kind of a socialist in her political beliefs other than myself. Probably because she had grown up within a social democratic-led Scandinavian country and because her parents had likely voted Social Democratic party candidates and raised her to be a socialist in her political views?

Also perhaps because, besides being personally happy with her life and family situation in the USA, she was a socialist, the Travelers Aid-ISS social worker from Scandinavia was the only social worker there who noticed I likely would then have preferred to be earning my economic survival money by having a job other than the dictaphone-transcriptionist/typing job I had in the Travelers Aid-ISS office?

Because a month or two after I had been working at Travelers Aid-ISS and, as my hair grew longer, I had begun to reveal myself as being some sort of a hippie-freak, she stopped by my work desk and suggested to me, in a friendly, slightly Scandinavian accent, that I look into the possibility of trying to get some work during the summer on one of the New England-based fishing boats, that she had learned were looking to hire some men, like myself, who were in their 20's, that summer.

Although I expressed my thanks for her thoughtful suggestion and admitted that a job on a New England-based fishing boat for the summer would, indeed, be considered by me to be a more interesting work world situation than the job I then had at Travelers Aid-ISS, I also indicated that I was still reluctant to yet move out of New York City in the mid-1970s and give up my relatively low-rent apartment.

But, aside from having this particular conversation with this third Travelers Aid-ISS social worker, whose dictated tapes I helped transcribe, about possible job openings on New England-based fishing boats in the mid-1970s, I don't recall anything more about this social worker from Scandinavia.